Women actually have higher IQ on average, but the evidence is limited and within at most 1 IQ point, so its safer to say that there’s no practical difference instead.
Daycare is actually beneficial to children if both parents work. It’s perfectly fine for both parents to work, whether they’re following their passions or not. I didn’t say that only women should be allowed to follow their passion. Men can do so just the same. And not all people have incredibly strong passions, which is often a reason to just do a job for money.
Children are not toys are accessories, obviously. But neither is a wife. You talk about the woman like a good that every man is supposed to acquire. No, what a man should do is work with a woman to build a positive relationship and provide a good environment for raising a family. Whether that good environment means a stay at home mom or dad, both parents working and daycare, part time jobs or whatever kind of system you have, its up to the individuals.
And by the way, I’m actually a man. I don’t like being locked to a role by gender norms either, which is why I’d rather people like you don’t encourage them.
Equality only advocates for you to find your ideal situation for both partners. And not everyone will have kids, that’s perfectly okay too. It’s up the the couple to decide, not for someone online to tell them that this is the woman’s job and this is the man’s job.

Sorry, I assumed that your implication was men have higher IQs. That is a genuine mistake on my part, I’ll admit it.

And yes, I do have lowered testosterone levels. Hasn’t impeded me this far, I prefer the kind of women it attracts. But that’s a personal opinion. And maybe I think not wanting children is relatively common is because I talk to those kinds of women. Either way, as I said, it’s up to the individuals to decide. Not for an outside party to tell them, regardless of if it is on average correct.

Daycare isn’t the best option, I won’t deny it. Studies show that during early development of the baby, real parenting is better. That’s why maternity and paternity leave exist, because that’s a formative time.

Also nice is that jobs are limited in hours, so only very specific circumstances can completely stop parents from spending time with their children. But if both parents work moderate hours, then they still have more than enough time to spend with their kids than parents without jobs usually do. That’s because not every waking hour at home counts towards parenting, only time somewhat-actively engaged with your children. Bad parenting happens everywhere, unfortunately.

I completely agree that you shouldn’t complain about earnings if you’ve chosen your passion. That is completely valid.

A positive relationship is one where both parties help out the other. This could be materially, emotionally, or ideally both. Respect and communication certainly help build positive relationships. A good environment for raising a family includes stability, love, and tolerance. Tolerance of people who don’t think the same, because children aren’t always the same as their parents.

I’m not going to counter your personal attacks on me, because 1. it doesn’t bother me and 2. they aren’t based in fact so I can’t

Either way, this discussion has actually yielded some interesting ideas, it’s been legitimately enjoyable to discuss this with you!